Monday, January 14, 2019
A Difficult Decision
Decision qualification is one of the hardest things a human being sight do for themselves. The purposes people ferment, they do to either better themselves or incense themselves. Decision making could be what college someones going to or making a big change in their persists equivalent moving. Others would make a bad decision, whether its ignoring good advice or going as far as doing drugs. Some people would make decisions because of the situation there in and is an impulse decision, but sometimes it turns out good.Decision MakingFor four and a half years, I melodic theme my mother was actu wholey starting to change, but, in reality I misled myself into believing something that wasnt true. I was a creditworthy student, take to the woodsed and thought of all timeything was going puff up and where I wanted it to be. The last a couple of(prenominal) months that I lived with my mother and step-father, everything went spiraling into complete and total chaos. The last week, wa s the pommel and best thing that has ever happened for me, and also the close delicate decision of my life. The start of everythingIn July of 2013, my life started to spiral out of control, I that graduate high school and was looking for work consistently. My mother insisted that I redress rent, every week until I could pay back my own place to live at first I didnt mind that, I just demand to find a job and fast. I luckily gear up a job a month later, I was doing very well there and then I got second job. I wasnt making that much specie and my mom kept insisting that the rent Im supposed to pay, is more than the last time.I barely made the beat she wanted me to pay a week, so I tried to find other things I could possibly do to make more money I was out of luck. My mom and I started to argue a jam over the littlest things. I was trying to get myself out of that house as soon as possible, the animated conditions were very bad no affaire what I wouldtry to do, no food, f ilthy house. I was never dwelling house to do any of the cleaning because I was always at work or on my spare time see the people I really care about but, it started to get worse.Getting worseAs the months started to drag on bye, my living situation became increasingly worse. I had found out that my mother and her preserve were doing drugs. I really didnt appreciate the way they used me and thought I was stupid enough to believe they werent doing anything. They started accusing me of larceny things, and doing things that I never even thought about doing. One twenty-four hours my mother called the police on me and she had told the police officer that I had attacked her. This was the most hurtful thing imaginable, my own mother, calling the police on me.What happened was, I wanted the money I had lent to her back ($50), I needed the money for some food, she kept resisting giving me my money back I axiom the money laying on the counter, so I went and got it and she, repeatedly kic ked me in the stomach and bit me. Never once, would I ever indue a hand on my mother. Im really delighted I had people in my life that would take care of me whenever I needed a helping hand.The evictionThe last week that I saw my mother was the day I received an eviction notice from her, mighty before Christmas. I was very hurt and I had no whim what to do, Ive never been in this situation before I was scared. She state that I didnt do anything around the house to help, so I had to go. I Know why she evicted me and I hope that someday that she give get the help that she needs. A couple of days after I had received the eviction notice, I found a place to live. It was not an easy move, but it was the best choice I hasten ever made. On December 7, 2013 I said my final goodbyes to my mother and have not seen or mumbled a single word to her, since that day.Where I wentPeople, who Im not even related to, treated me just like their family. I call her my aunt Tonya she has been shelte ring me since that day. She offered me a place to stay, and I took the offer. The difficult decision was that I had to move an hour and a half away, from my family and friends. They all understood, and want me to succeed in life, and show people I lead make something of myself and prove the people that told me I couldnt wrong. Now,Im focusing better on school, and plan to succeed.
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